How to host a matchmaking night people actually remember

Throwing people in a room and hoping they mingle rarely works. The best matchmaking nights are designed — here is how to run one.

1. Pick your vibe

Romantic, platonic or business? Choosing one up front sets the tone for the questions and the energy of the room. Mixed events work too, but tell guests what to expect.

2. Ask questions that reveal personality

Skip "what do you do for work". The questions that create sparks are about values and quirks:

• Would you rather a quiet night in or a spontaneous adventure?
• Pineapple on pizza: yes or no?
• How important is ambition to you, honestly?

3. Reveal the matches live

The magic moment is the reveal. With Moment of Match, every guest watches the same synced countdown on their phone, then the room erupts as matches drop together. It is the part everyone films.

4. Let people choose to connect

Nobody likes a forced exchange of numbers. Mutual, opt-in contact sharing means details only pass along when both people say yes.

Ready to try it? You can host your own event in a few minutes.